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writes:So i really like this boy whos 2 years above me, but i havent really ever spoke to him and i very rarely see him, i might pass him like once a week or somethin withhim been in sixth form. He has flirted with me at a party before but not verbally lol. That was a few weeks ago. Now i can't stop thinkin about him but im sooo shy, i get emmbarrased really easily so i can't talk to him when i do see him, i wouldn't have time really anyway because we'd be on our way to lessons. So i decided to add him on myspace.. i already have him on bebo, i have for ages but he never goes on there anymore. Anyway my plan is when he accepts my myspace request il leave him a comment, maybe sayin thanks for acceptin or sumthin. But.... i dont know what i should write to him.. does anyone have any ideas, please remember that everyone will be able to see my comment lol. And if anyone has any other ideas of how i could get to know him or get his attention please help me :) be realistic tho please. And i always look crap at school so nothin too much if you get me? Lol. Thank you.
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reader, buddah.guru  +, writes (25 September 2009):
 Just go up to him and confront him in the hallway. What's the worst that could happen? I'm sure he's probably anxious to get to know you. But the age difference also depends. I personally wouldn't go out with a 15 year old guy because I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that, but one of my close friends goes out with a 16 year old so it depends on your choice. I would still attempt to talk to him though. Approach him with confidence, that will give you a very good air when he sees you. Hope this helped!! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009): From reading your comment I feel like I've gone back in time to when I was your age (which wasn't that long ago, I'm only 20). I was always falling for guys I didn't know very well. I never had the courage to do anything about it. I wish I had though, I was always too afraid of rejection. Parties are the perfect time to get to know someone new. Bebo should help you too. I started to get to know my boyfriend properly through bebo and msn and we've been going out for almost 3 years now. If I were you I wouldn't worry about the perfect thing to say. ''Thanks for adding me'' on bebo would be a start though. Oh and when he replies, wait a bit until you reply back (hard to get is a bit of a cliche but it works!). Boys can be lazy so don't be disheartened if he doesn't reply. You mention you don't know him well. A word of warning, a lot of the time when you like a guy from a distance they turn out to be nothing like you thought they were. It's easy to create this perfect image in your head but then sometimes you can come to the conclusion that this person doesn't really exist. In saying that though, there's no harm in finding out. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009): Being forward is probably the best approach - guys love confidence. You don't see much of him so you have nothing to lose - tell him you love something he has written on his profile (assuming you actually like it) and ask him to tell you more about it. Ask him how he is, how he finds sixth form, just show general interest in him. As long as he isn't socially inept, he should get the idea and respond with questions about you - let the conversation flow from there. :) x
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