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Is he making me suffer for what I did?

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Question - (13 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2009)
A female Lebanon age 36-40, anonymous writes:

ive dated this guy for 2 years i do love him but i know for a fact that he loves me even more..i've changed his life!

it was all perfect,but 4 months ago he had to leave the country..it was so hard for both of us but we promised we'll face anything,together...

after 2 months of him leaving i found out that i have skin cancer,i was so scared didnt know what to do!i got really drunk that night,and ended up kissing another guy..he found out the next day(one of his friends told him)he broke up with me,even after knowing that i had cancer i kept calling him not bearing the thought of losing him!

after that everything was good and said that he forgave me,we started drifting further and further apart,but i always fixed things..

after 2 months(2 days ago)he said that he had slept with another,he didnt asy that he was sorry,and said that he wants to do it again!

i felt so hurt!tried to fix things again then he sent me a message saying that he's a peice of shit and i have to ignore him!

is this his way for making me suffer for kissing another?do you think he loves me?he asked me to punish him for what he's done not to try and be nice to him!

help!

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A female reader, Jen, United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2009):

Jen, agony auntYes, pretty much.

I don't think you should ever get back with him. He doesn't seem a genuine guy.

If he really loved you, he wouldn't have done that, and known that would you did was a mistake.

He didn't even care when you told him you had skin cancer, so that shows his true colours.

Jen x

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