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writes:Okay me and my friend started going out but before we did she told me she has a problem from going from friend to girlfriend. and I just said ok well now that we have been together she still acts the same and its kinda weird, and i guess bothers me a little,the only time i feel shes not like that she tells me she loves me every now and then other than that it just like being my friend. so what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): Don't worry about it. Be patient with her. She probably just hasn't got used to the situation yet and needs some time.
It's a good sign that she tells you she loves you coz it shows that she does want you two to be a couple. She just might not know how to really break the ice and express herself since she's used to you as a friend.
Give her time and she should improve. It sounds as if it's a big step for her and I'd think she's taking your relationship pretty seriously.
Don't push her, just reassure her that you love her so that she feels more confident.
I don't think you should be too worried.
Good Luck. X
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