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Dated a girl, then her sister, now I want to date the 1st sister again

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Question - (13 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *rans Am Man writes:

Ok when I was in 7th grade I was 14 going on 15 I started to date this girl who was 14 and in the 8th grade, we'll call her BB. I dated her for maybe 4 months and then the summer came. Over the summer I never saw or called her once, needless to say the relationship ended itself, but while I was dating her the only affection I ever showed her was a hug and that only happened once. The folowing year in the 8th grade I fell in love with her sister, we'll call her LB. By now I was 16 and she was 14. I asked her out and she said yes. We dated for almost 7 months, I was alot better to her, I told her I loved her everyday, and always hugged her and kissed her on the cheeck every chance I got. We were together throughout the whole summer, and it was the best summer of my life. So the we started high school and I made it clear to her that I loved her more than anything else in the world, that she was the one I wanted to be with forever. I told her that anytime she needed to talk I was there for her and would be willing to talk about anything. Anyhow she broke up with me for some other guy. I won't lie it hurt like hell and still does. however In the past couple days I've fallen for her sister (BB) again. I asked her out the other day, I just went up to her and asked her if she would go to the movies with me, she said she didn't think it would be a good Idea, I asked her if it was because of her sister and she said no it was because of this other guy who she is trying to snag. I told her I understood and she said she was sorry and we could still be friends. Since I asked her out I just like her a whole lot more. I'm not wanting to make a permanant relationship out of this, but if that's how things turn out then I wouldn't complain. If she's not with anybody by the time that homecoming comes around then I'm gonna ask her to go with me. I need some advice on how to win her over.

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (13 September 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntSo...you dumped her without a word and then dated her sister, and you think she's going to go out with you again? Dude, I am surprised she even gave you the time of day.

I strongly suggest you find someone else to be interested in.

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