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writes: Hey, I don't really know where to start but i'm 15, nearly 16 and I have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone or anything. It's not that I don't want to it's just that nothing has happened for me. Yes I have been asked out but I have said no because those people just were not right for me at the time. I just feel so left behind. I know people will be thinking well it doesn't matter i've got plenty of time for all that but you see all my friends have had boyfriends and experience with them. I just fear that when I do get my first boyfriend I will come across all stupid because i've never been kiseed and what have you. I just don't really know what to think or what to do? Any advice? Thanks for your help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers! You all have helped xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): I'm in the same boat as you! I'm 16 and never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone- even though someone asked me out. I'll just wait and see what happens- if the guy really likes you shouldn't make fun of you. Definitely wait for that special person rather than getting off at some random party or other. Good luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): Dont worry about your first time kissing someone, :) . My first kiss was when i was about 13 and i just went with the flow thats all you can really do but before i kissed anyone i used to practice on the back of my hand and i know it sounds stupid but it really helped me! and it might do you too :D
good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): Right, well when the time came for me to kiss someone, i didnt think about the fact i never done it before...just go with the flow. This sounds silly but really helped me - kiss on the back of your hand to see if your doing it wrong but you shouldent you cant really go wrong with just kissing. It doesn't matter if you have never kissed a guy before, some are ready before others.
Good luck, hope i helped x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): No you wont, I was about your age when I had my first kiss, it was with some-one I really loved and it didnt feel weird or anything, and because we really cared for each other even if i did make a fool of myself, it didnt matter.
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reader, Accountable  +, writes (13 September 2009):
 The best thing to do is just not to worry about it and go with the flow :)I wanted my first kiss to be special so I waited until I found the right person, even though I thought this might mean I'd look like a total novice to him!I had my first kiss when I was about 16 and a half, with a 20 year old (who I thought must be vastly more experienced!) who I loved, and still do :) far from finding out I was inexperienced, he told me I was an amazing kisser. So I'm of the opinion that its not something you need to practice for so long as youre doing it with the right person, and its not a competition between you and your friends; just try not to panick about it! :) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): When the time comes I'm sure it'll be fine. If the person wants to kiss you then they're not gonna care what you're like. They'll probably feel honoured that they're your first!It'll be fine. No need to kiss someone for the sake of it. You should only kiss when you mean it.X X X
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