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writes:My b/f loves me but is not at all possessive about me. I can go out with anybody and do whatever I feel like. He doent mind. On the other end I am extremely possessive about him and he respects it and feels really good about this . Then why he doesn't feel the same way about me when he is taking my possessiveness so positivly. I wonder if he really loves me.Plzzzzzzz help Reply to this Question
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reader, helpmeavi +, writes (27 September 2009):
Hi,
this is exactly what i have been going through the past 3 years, and i know how you feel. when i felt i had the freedom to do what i wanted without him being bothered about it, i went ahead and found myself another date. that's when he panicked. though he became fairly possessive until i rubbed the other guy outta my life completely, he is now back to his old ways. i also wonder often if he really loves me or not, but at the end of the day, i feel i have no option but to make do with it. the most important thing for me is my own satisfaction. if i want my bf to be possessive, i will go for one, unless he has a magnetic power of some other quality. so i suggest unless you find a better altrnative, stay with him. if you do find someone else, remember,you dont have to be guilty cos ur life doesnt end at your bf. your bf doesn't care anyway. good luck!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (13 September 2009):
 He is behaving like we're all suppoesed to behave but have difficulty doing. Don't look for problems where they don't exist. Nobody here knows your boyfriend but based on what you're saying, I think perhaps the issue is yours.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 September 2009):
He sounds a great boyfriend!
I wish all boyfriends were like that, it would solve a lot of misery.
If you want to get rid of this wonderful man and let some other girl enjoy having the perfect boyfriend then do it.
Find yourself a man who'll go through your phone and tell you what you do, if you're lucky he'll slap you in the face when you annoy him!!
Good Luck!! xx
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