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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I just got out of a 3 year relationship a little while ago, I felt it had been over for awhile it was just a matter of someone stepping up and making it official. Recently started hooking up with this guy I met 2 years ago in college. I really like the guy from college, but I'm having trouble reading if that is it between us or if he wants something more.I'm enjoying hooking up and having fun after recently becoming single, but i'd eventually like to make the casual thing we have going into something. We do live in different cities, but we text and talk about once a day, although about 70% of the time is flirting and the rest is actual conversation.Also I think the fact that he may think he's a rebound is making things hard, before we started hooking up I was going to go with him as a "date" to his sisters wedding but about a week before the wedding he said "he didn't want to make me feel uncomfortable by meeting his entire family"Does he actually like me? or just like hooking up with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): I am sure it is a little bit of both. Generally, though if you are just giving him sex and not dating him, then he is using you for sex and will be less likely to want to elevate you to a girlfriend, guys just don't do that with girls who give them sex so easily.
If you just got out of a three year relationship, then it is probably best that you don't get into a serious relationship right away and spend your time focusing on you and what you want out of life in order to be happy.
Date some guys, but don't sleep around if you want to find someone who is interested in a relationship.
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