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I start twitching when my boyfriend fingers me - what is this?

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Question - (13 September 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I'm 17 and I'm a girl. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we dont have sex but I give him oral sex and hand jobs and he has tried oral sex on me and fingers me. We dont really have a lot of time alone because our parents are always in the house when he comes over or vise versa. So we have never had enough time for me to reach any sort of climax when he is giving me oral sex. Anyway, lately whenever he fingers me (he doesnt actually put his finger up there..he just rubs around my clit area really fast) I get this really good feeling.. and my whole body starts twitching. I know its not an orgasm but I was wondering what it was and why I start twitching? and is it normal?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009):

I would hope this is totally normal... Just because when I'm masturbateing and I play with it I do the same exact thing

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (14 September 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntYEah its normal just muscle spasms If you ever dropped some candy on a group of ants and seen how crazy they get well thats basically what happens your clit is a major nerve center a central hub probably only your brain has more nerves, the nerves in the clitoris seem designed to induce a specific kind of pleasure and by being stimulated it fires off sending pulses all over your body and there you have it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009):

Oral sex is sex, you don't have intercourse.

Yes, it's normal, you call it twitching, some women shiver, different reaction, if it feels good that's what counts.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009):

...normal, very normal....

its just response to stimulus there.... i would assume it feels ok and the twitching isn't epileptic its actions?

so just enjoy...

Star.x.

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