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*etecherb
writes:Hi, im 19 years old, ive recently been having an erection problem half way through sex i keep loosing my erection.Im recently with a new girlfriend i was with my last girlfriend for over a year and our sex life was amazing it was good every single time, but now with my current girlfriend its completly different, i keep loosing my erection half way through sex we always foreplay before hand to get warmed up and its fine but sometimes i even loose my erection whilst foreplaying i'm even sometimes loosing it whilst shes giving me head, im extremly embarresed about it and desperatly want to get it sorted,could any one help please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): are you taking any medications or stressed out about anything, stress and medication has a huge affect on this no matter how turned on you are. also try not to think about it and talk about with this girl i'm sure you worry about it before hand which only makes it more stressful and you keep waiting for it to happen instead of enjoying what's happening.Relax and just to to enjoy it and if it happens again maybe take a break and go back to making out or pleasuring her and see if you get turned on again. Don't be embarassed this kind of stuff happens just relax, talk to her, and try to stop stressing out about it, if it doesn't get better maybe see a doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): you are still in love with your first gf. you will get over it. just relax and don't force yourself to have sex with the new gf at any cost.If you don't like her enough the decent thing to do is let her go and find someone who you really fancy.
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reader, zetecherb +, writes (13 September 2009):
zetecherb is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncheers for help, i got rid of my old girlfriend because I didnt feel the same about her and i just didnt love her any more at all, ive never felt the same about a girl then how i feel with this one she just feels perfect!!
ive only once thought about my ex during sex but she was gone out my head within 30 seconds and i do most times think bout the problem before hand becauuse of how embarresed i get i just beg its not gonna happen again, about a week ago i managed to go 2 and a half hours before and after that time i cant even go 5 minutes before ive losst my erection
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (13 September 2009):
 Here's the problem. You're not over your old girlfriend and you're spending too much time ruminating over this.
You need to make a significant, emotional connection to your current girlfriend.
Sex is largely in the mind. If you don't focus on the girl you're with, you're going to turn yourself off!
Try looking at your girlfriend in the eyes and just do a nice long gaze, then pay attention to HER body during foreplay. Get into HER, and then let things go from there. She's the one you're with, not the one that's gone.
The one that's gone is gone, period. Let that one go and stick with the gal that's made you lucky enough to find happiness again. She deserves your attention.
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reader, MeBeTonya +, writes (13 September 2009):
 For one, are you thinking about your exgirlfriend while your having sex? You need to make sure that you have a clear mind while having sex...Another, if you're thinking about having a problem beforehand, you're going to have a problem...Stop thinking about things...
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