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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I need help with my relationship.Here's a little about it. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. He is my second boyfriend. I was with my ex for about 3 years. I conserve myself until marriage and I did not have sex with my ex; however, I lost my virgity to my second boyfriend. All my fears about having sex before marriage are coming true. I had a rough year with him. He is very difficult to deal with, but i truly love him. He is a family person. He's family comes before me. He says its not like that but i feel that sometimes he needs to cut the umbilical cord. He has a lot of goals in mind for the future, but he doesn't seem to be acting on it. Not so long ago, i logged on into his email account and found some disturbing things. He was trying to hook up and have sex with a girl he looked up on craigslist. He never went through with it, but i feel betrayed. I cry everyday because i feel he's not trying to make it work. Is it just my mind making up these thoughts? im tired of arguing. Was it right giving him another chance?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): im 22 and a man if that makes you feel any better.
hes taking advantage of you and the fact that you probably wont break up with him. call his bluff, lets see how well craiglist creeps can fill the void u left. some time down the road, when he realizes his mistake you can have the sorrowful joy of telling him
"its to late"
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