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really like this guy, but is he just using me for a bit of fun?

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Question - (13 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well i like this guy, we have been out as a couple a few times and we just starting seeing each other more again but not in a relationship kinda way - just as mates.

We have been kissing and cuddling (NOTHING ELSE) as well but then i just found out he has a girlfriend? what shall i do? im too scared to ask him if we didnt mean anything, i mean i know your probably thinking that there wasnt a 'us' but kissing and cuddling has gotta count for sank right?? -- Can you help?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009):

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Thanks thats good advice but sometimes he still wants to meet me even though he has a girlfriend so does this mean he likes me?

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A male reader, Heartbroken in love United States +, writes (14 September 2009):

my suggestion is build your standards. You will be better off finding out about a guys situation before letting yourself get too "into" him. Find out his situation then start finding out about him then if that makes you fall for him then go for it. this instand attraction stuff will get you in trouble through out life. If you ask him about it he probably won't give you a strait answer so don't even bother. Keep your distance and let a little time ween you off of him.

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