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writes:Hello, just a quick request for advice, please.My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 8 years, and enjoy a healthy loving relationship. We are hoping to get married soon. We are both in our late 20s, professionals, and own our own home.For the length of our relationship she has admitted to being openly bisexual, despite never having had a relationship or slept with a woman before. This has never bothered me, as we have both been faithful to each other throughout our relationship. If anything, I'm quite turned on by the fact she likes both men and women. We're both quite comfortable with it.We often fantasise about MFF threesomes during sex, and she has often told me how much she would like to have sex with another woman whilst I watched. We often extend this to me joing in with my girlfriend. This is something which I also find a turn-on.So - my question. We have a fairly local company that specialises in classy (and expensive) escorts, some of whom are bisexual, and cater to these kind of fantasises. I'm therefore thinking of approaching my girlfriend with the suggestion that we give it a go, for real.So my questions:a) Do you guys think this is a good idea?b) Has anyone ever tried this before?c) Any other advice?My thanks in advance!Northern Mist
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): Been there...Met me ex-wife (ops, I spoiled the ending) in college, and she admitted to being bi-sexual about 2 or 3 months into the realtionship. Like most men, when I heard this I was trilled because my assumption was that sooner or later, it would result in a 3some with some hot chick. Years went by and while it was an active fantasy, we didn't make any progress. Then her urges got stonger and stronger, and she started sleeping (behind my back) with her manicurist. She then branched out to sleeping with an old co-worker and his wife (they were swingers)- again, behind my back. She then suggested that we find a couple with a bi-female to play with. We joined a national 'freind finder" site, and w/i a few weeks found a hot couple about 1 hour from us. We met, and had an incredible first encounter. My wife moved out the next day, and I learned that she'd been seeing yet another person (now her husband) who she'd moved in with...So, yes.... some experience...Is this the kiss of death each and every time- NO! however, you need to open a very clear communication with your spouse.I like the idea of using an escort, as you'll be less tempted to repeat the performance. If it goes well, consider annual vacations at resorts that cater to couples who enjoy this kind of play. They're out there and very easy to find.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): my advice would be - what does she say? what does your partner want. - just because she says she likes the thought - does not mean she is....
talk to her.
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