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Why did the drunken 'you're hot' texts stop now that we're dating?

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Question - (17 October 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is probaly gonna sound stupid but... back before summer, this guy liked me, and whenever he went on a night out I would recieve drunk texts and phone calls. They basically said 'Your hot.' or 'I want you.' Ya know usual guy stuff.

Now we have got a little closer, we arnt going out but sorta in that dating stage, anyway I never recieve any drunk texts anymore! I wouldnt say it bugged me, but before I had some inclination he actually liked me, and now, well im sure he does, but has he stopped doing it cos we have got more serious?

He was out last night and he called another girl... im not bothered by this im just wondering why he doesnt ring me anymore!

Any ideas?

xx

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A female reader, roxyrex United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2009):

roxyrex agony auntMaybe send texts 2 him instead but be CAREFUL

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A female reader, roxyrex United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2009):

roxyrex agony auntMaybe send texts 2 him instead but be CAREFUL

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (17 October 2009):

birdynumnums agony auntHell, ring him and tell him HE'S hot. Guys love it!!! Turn the tables on him and you'll blow his socks off!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009):

Hi

Of course, before I get lambasted by the other aunts and uncles, I might tell you that there is a SLIGHT chance that he might have honorable intentions.

Just, be VERY careful.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009):

HI

Drunk texts or drunk calls after 11pm in the night are classic booty calls. Respond or take them seriously only if you want a torrid sex. Only fling, no strings affair.

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A female reader, ellie:) United States +, writes (17 October 2009):

ellie:) agony aunthe sound like a player! You should take things super slow and ask him whats up..

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2009):

hlskitten agony auntSounds like he's the classic playa. Likes the chase, but once he's caught the prey, he loses interest and this girl he's txting is the next target!

Hard to say obviously. Just throwing my tuppence in there x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2009):

The only time he called was when he was drunk, so I'd seriously think about this anyway. Perhaps he realizes that his behaviour was in fact immature and he's trying to change. Or perhaps he's just a player. I'd take this slowly if I were you.

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