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*urpleshoes84
writes:Please help me. Thanks, don't know where else to turn :(This is in relevance to my last post...I met this guy on the net about just over a year ago, we built up a good friendship etc on the net and on the phone, and then met in reality however we have had our fair share of ups and downs but still seem to love each other very much, (seeing each other properly for three months but always stayed in touch on the phone, net etc) and when had met a fair few times the chemistry was nice plus he was nicer in reality etc. only trouble is he lives a couple of hours away, which I don't mind, he finished things a few months ago and I was very much in love with him, but he said he wasn't ready, I was gutted but tried to move on, but just recently like the last few weeks or so, we have been chatting again, he now tells me he loves me a lot, and wants to be with me, we are meant to be meeting next week, but we've had a couple of slight disagreements on the phone which we seem to resolve pretty quickly, but I end up feeling insecure and like i'm going to lose him, we had another disagreement tonight because he mentioned something about liking certain girls made up in a certain way, I think i overreacted a little and got jealous, I think this is because he has a bebo account and all the girls are after him all the time, when he's confronted about them, he rest assures me that he doesn't love them but he loves me, he apologised to me just now about being inconisderate, I don't feel like I have any one to turn to with regards to this, as my family and friends don't want to hear about it because of the first time when I was in peices that he'd left me, as it really hurt bad, so I just get upset, I really love him and want to be with him, I just don't know how to stop this silly jealousy I feel, and wonder if anyone else has been through the same? And why I'm getting upset like this, and how I can maybe manage things a bit better.Any advice would be so helpful(I know it's long but perhaps it's not a boring one lol) Thanks in advance.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 October 2009):
This sounds like it's doomed, I'll be honest. Bebo, facebook and all these other sites are relationship killers. He let you down once, and it seems like he is going to do it again. I'd quit now, forget about him permanently and never contact him again. You're going to get very hurt otherwise.
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