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*al789
writes:I have been married to my husband for 4 years. When we met he was seperated from his wife and living with his parents and I was recently divorced from a marriage of 17 years. After getting involved with him I discover that he has some serious debt so I helped him file for bankruptcy. Then once his divorce was final we got married, but because he had now filed bankruptcy he had zero credit, so we lived in the house that was in my name. Meanwhile I would occasionally find emails to women and porn sites on the computer and he would say he was just passing time having harmless fun cause he was bored, I encouraged him to stop which he would for a while.Then a couple years into our marriage he convinced me to sell my house and re-locate to another state and we bought another house. Remind you now he has no credit so everything we purchase is in my name from house to cars to credit card debt. Well after we are living is this other state for approx 6 months he lost his job, I can't manage all the debt on my own so we move back to our orignal state of residence where he got his old job back and we rented a house while our other house is up for sale, well after 5-6 months the house is not sold and we can no longer keep up the mortgage and rent, so now I am forced to file bankruptcy and let the bank foreclose on my house. Ok but to top it off I have again found emails to women asking them to meet him and giving them his cell phone number and I even found pictures of a girl in a motel room posing in lingerie and topless and I know he took the pics cause you can clearly see his reflection in the picture on the wall behind the bed. I am fed up! Currently I am making twice the income he brings home so he is really not contributing financially or emotionally to this marriage, he has turned cold towards me sexually as well and I am ready to ask for a divorce. Does anyone have any suggestions.
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reader, kal789 +, writes (18 October 2009):
kal789 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank You for the moral support it is really appreciated. I need all I can get cause I am a very non confrontational person and am not looking forward to going through another divorce.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (18 October 2009):
 Talk to a lawyer ASAP. No need to let this worthless hunk of junk lay up on you for one extra second. Get ready to enjoy that sweet freedom!
Good luck!
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (17 October 2009):
 Do it, you dont deserve to be always taken for granted... sometimes we need to step forward for our life.. everybody needs to survive, life is short we deserve to be happy at least we should try. goodluck
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