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writes:Just curious to know why so many men say short women are better lovers than taller women. I read several different forums, and sure enough, it came up over and over again. Problem was, no one elaborated on what made sex better with petite women. Guess I would like to hear from experienced men three things. First, is it true ? Second, if so, please elaborate. Third, what can a taller lady like me, (5'6 and 1/2) do to improve her skills to keep her man happy. No man in his right mind is going to tell his wife, or lover, you suck in bed, (no pun intended) so I am at the mercy of strangers for help and answers.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 October 2009):
It's not true. I actually prefer taller women. I think perhaps some men feel threatened by taller women, or prefer to seem taller so they come across as stronger. To be honest, it depends on the guy.
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reader, just a question +, writes (17 October 2009):
just a question is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHere's the deal. My sister and I were discussing the fact men seemed to prefer petite women. Googled it just for fun to see what men said about it. In several forums the sex thing came up by a variety of different men who seemed to have some experience. I am 41 years old and had never heard this before. Fact of the matter is, none of the other men disputed the fact. I am really most interested in what men have to say on the issue, because as a taller female I really wouldn't expect a totally honest answer from a man I knew, even if he believed it to be true. I know all about communication, trying new things, etc, etc... I was just wondering if it was some sort of physical difference, (smaller vagina is ridiculous) I know better than that, but apparently there must be something different about a petite women, or it wouldn't have kept coming up.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (17 October 2009):
 Forgot to add how you can improve your skills as a great lover....Communicate. Talk in bed about what you want and what he wants. Fantasize about your needs and be open to try new things. Keep him fastinated. Sex isn't always physical, your brain is your biggest sex organ.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (17 October 2009):
OK...I have a male friend who prefers short, petite women and this is the honest to God truth of why....
he says (never seen it) he has a small penis and petite women have tighter vaginas and so sex is better for him.
I have no idea if this is true but the other thing he will do is disqualify women for girlfriend material based on the size of their hands. (Equates to the size of their vagina) Most petite women have small hands.
Is he an idiot? Who knows but I am tall (as is he) and I give him a lot of shit about this. He is now dating a tiny woman of 5 foot 1.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): i dont think short women are better in bed or anything, thats obviously some stupid stereotype youve heard.. but its just a preference.. my friend is a 17 year old girl and shes just under 6 foot! shes always got guys after her for her sexy long legs, which go up to her armpitts haha! and shes alwaaayss got guts lookin at her and shes never single lol. whereas im 5 foot 4 and A HALF! which i thought was tall for a girl age 17, but no. apparently im short lol, but ive never either had trouble getting a boyfriend.. its just a myth man ignore it! :D xxx
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (17 October 2009):
What? I've NEVER heard anyone claim that short women are better in bed... Here's some consideration... First, there are more 'short' women than tall ones, when we compare women's heights to men... Second, men usually find women who are adventureous, yet cute more sexual... A shorter woman who is wanting to get nasty may be less intemidating than a woman of 'average' or taller height... When I consider all the women at my place of business, (which trust me, I'd never thought of this till now...) I suppose that the shorter women would be less of a threat, and more likely to be seen as approachable... sometimes I suppose apprachability may be seen as a desirable trait by men.Ok, what can a lady of what appears to be average height do?Well first, reast assured that this is NOT a height issue. In the event that your man likes these short women because their stature allows them to become gymnists in bed, it's not about height. What most men find attractive in a lover, is entusism for them and sex. We want our women to enjoy us and be playful in bed. Be adventurous, try new things, be 'dirty' occasionally... I'm not talking about getting to far out there, but take care of yourself, surprise us with a new outfit, and then drag us to bed (or to the breakfast room to be taken across the table! or the kitchen counter!). wake him up with a blowjob, or start asking for morning sex... of afternoon weekend sex...Try something you've never done... be giving (more oral), or learn how to perfect giving a handjob, or oral sex... or learn how to add anal sex to the menu... Confidence is sexy, so is having a lover you TRUST allow you and her to get wild in the saftey of your own home.Not attractive:1. Routine sex2. Not being a giving lover3. No to things we enjoy4. No to trying anything new5. Critsism of anything during or after sex6. Repeated turn downs7. Not asking for sex8. Not participating in sex once it's started...I'd suggest that what any woman needs to do to be good in bed is to develop the traits of being a good lover... the two are not the same.
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