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How can I be more confident around boys?

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Question - (17 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *ove1cecold writes:

i am 14 years old and never had a boyfriend...its not that i cant get one guys ask me out but everyime they do i say no even if i like them, how can i be more confident around guys???

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A male reader, steelpicker United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2009):

steelpicker agony auntYou're only 14. Enjoy life, and save yourself for someone very special in a few years. You'll know when you find the right person. Your first few crushes will be quite intense, but one day you will know without doubt that you are into someone.

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A female reader, mistakentragedy United States +, writes (17 October 2009):

mistakentragedy agony auntEvery girl goes through the stage of being shy around guys. You just have to be comfortable in your own skin. As CaringGuy said, maybe you're not ready for a boyfriend. There's no need to rush into having a boyfriend. It doesn't make you different it just means that you are more focused on other things. There's no need to worry about it.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2009):

If you're saying no even if you like them, maybe you're not ready for a boyfriend? You're still young, so there's no rush. So think about that. That said, if you want to be more confident, you need to just be around them more. Speak to them, flirt a bit and such. Talk to them. Get used to being around them, and your confidence will grow.

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