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writes: I'm a 30 year old male and I've met this hot woman off the internet. She is 20 years old and a virgin. No religious ties. She's never even had a bf. She just moved out of her parents home (very controlling/mentally abusive father) and is living on her own at the college town she is attending. She wants to have sex w/ me and is planning on getting the pill. What do you think the likelihood of her being faithful to me is going to be? I'm afraid to commit my heart to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): Well i wouldnt worry about that. I would just shag her. And practice safe sex. Then take things from there.
But we are all different. If a girl wants to shag you. You ask the opinion of a bunch of strangers first. Maybe you think we know her better than you.
I dont think she will cheat on you till she gets to know what your like. But she may die of boredome in the meantime.
At the end of the day if the girl did cheat. At least i got laid. And you didnt.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 October 2009):
Be careful. If she's been abused, then there is a chance that she sees you as her lifeboat.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (17 October 2009):
I agree, sounds fishy... even if you've talked to her on the phone. Sounds like a come on if you ask me, just like the tales the strippers use to seperate men from their money. Tell them what they want to hear, get the cash, give them what they want to get it...BE CAREFUL, odds are good this is too good to be true.Take is slow and don't confuse giving her cash with 'taking care of her'... my first wife was that way when I met her and the more I helped her, the more she became dependant on me and the more cash it cost. The divorce was worth every penny... and I'm in a great place now, and understand the difference!
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reader, called Steve +, writes (17 October 2009):
 As the previous poster says...There is no-way she is genuine - an abusive father? Wants sex with you and never met you...?If she exists - you would probably get what you are really looking for (Sex) but there would be implecations, probably a bill for money - she sounds like a professional to me.If you look in the wrong places expect to meet the wrong people.Steve
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): Has she asked for money yet?This sounds like a scam to me, id get rid of her.Too good to be true is almost always too good to be true.If you want to be sure then meet up with her and get to know her, take it very slow. Keep your heart for a little while yet
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): About a snowball's chance in hell. Read your post and ask yourself how stable is a 20 year old from an abusive home looking to have sex and lose her virginity with some guy she met on the internet who is 10 years older than she is (or really any age). Do you really think you are the only man she has spoken to about this on the internet?
She sounds like one screwed up gal to me.
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