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writes:ok she broke up with me afew weeks ago and yeah its been hard.we finally stated some what talikng and texting after she wouldnt answer me for awhile before.but i think i went to far we where together for 8 years and i just dont want to let go.i still love her so much and i have no other famliy she has been it.lastnight i went to far by calling and texting afew time thought out the night try to get her to talk to me she texted me back and said she was sleeping that she had to work early which i know.i just keep having those thoughts that shes with someone else.i know its not even like that.but i just get so mad that she wont get back to me and i get worried.i know calling and bugging will push her away but i have no one close enough to talk to about all this.i recently told her i know why she left .i figuerd out my fualts and she said i was right on point with everything i said. but after lastnight with me texting and calling she said if i do it agin she will change her number.which i dont want to happin.i just dont get why and how you leave someone after 8 years and you dont want to really talk to that person she siad if we talk thats how i get her to change her mind and she doesnt want to anymore.i know she still loves me and is trying too be strong about not getting back together because we would always got back together after a break up but nothing ever this long and its killing me.she di say she needs time but its hard when i have no one to talk to about things.so ladies what should i do ? thank you
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (17 October 2009):
 It sounds like you do not understand why you broke up. Was it something you have done. By the way you have written I get the feeling you are quite obessed with this girl. You love her TOO much. for girls, this can be scary and suffogating.
Back off for a while. Go out with your friends and with other girls. They can just be friends. Try and get your mine of her for a while. Afer a couple of weeks of not hearing from you she may well call you to find out how you are.
you were together for 8 years. That is a lot of history. I am sure she will not forget about you that easily.
Good luck!
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