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writes: Hye there friends.. I need a lil advice. Me and my gf of 8 months years (we are both 16) were hangin together last night. And she just randomly asked to give me a bj. I was elated cuz we've never even touched on that kind of stuff before. But the think is she asked to put on a condom. You need a condom to get a blow job?.. i mean wouldnt it be a lil awkward for her with the greesy taste of a condom? why did she ask for one? im a virgin, ive never had any type of sex before...so why would we need a condom. I bet it might've felt better withought it. so tell me what you think guys.. thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): had the same problem partner...my gf said it was the taste... anyways try it in the shower...she'll do it...oh yea and someone else mentioned returning the favor, Great advice....try 69...it motivates her...ALOT...good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): The only place i ever had a bj wearing a condom was in a brothel in Amsterdam. It was not by choice. But you can understand why it was a house rule. Or you payed extra. Wharreva.
I have tried my crystal ball but its not working tonight. So
I have no idea why your gf asked you to wear one. But probably its a matter of taste. So did you manage to put your todger in the correct orifice all on your own but cant ask her a simple question.
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reader, BasBond  +, writes (19 October 2009):
Seems to me that some of the responses are a bit over the top about STI's as your a virgin! A blow job with a condom takes away most of the sensitivity and feeling you get, though is a darn sight better than no BJ! Probably she was as unsure as you about what to do or other girls have put her off. If you wash your old man before you go on a date then if she offers again she may be more willing to go bareback and prefer the taste to that of rubber. Just remember that in this situation she is in total control in more ways than one! By the way have you offered to return the favour for her?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (18 October 2009):
 Gosh, how nice of you to worry about the taste of the condom and not the taste of your penis or sperm.
And STD's, well those only happen to other people eh?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): One reason she might of wanted you to put a condom on is because some girls don't like cum in there mouth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): you don't need a condom for someone to give you a bj... i've done it many times! However, being on the pill does make you and probably your girl feel more safe, because that way if she gets some cum on her vagina she shouldn't get pregnant.
make sure that you don't have an STI. i don't know where you live but in canada you can go to the doctors at 14 alone and have private converstations about this stuf.
I also reccomend her keeping her shorts/underwear/pants on just to make sure - getting pregnant young is not fun from what i hear!
p.s from what my bf tells me its better without a condom ;D
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 October 2009):
Well good for her! She's watching out for her sexual health. You haven't got a disease, but she's being careful anyway, because diseases can be passed this way. Respect that fact she is using condoms and don't pressurize her.
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