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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:HelloI need some advice about my life and how to improve it I mean a while ago i lost my virginity to a prostitute and it was awful regretted it.... but i made the same mistake again... and learnt alot from it. It made me realise i want a loving relationship with someone and that sex didnt matter but i think i was fooling myself and made the same mistake again!!!!! I feel liek a fool and just a idiot as all i thought i learnt was washed down the drain.... also all these times i never got any pleasure out of it ( first 2 times i didnt lets say finish) and the 3rd time i did but it was pretty unpleasurable!!!..... Im very lonely and have been for a while... my closest friends let me down and made fun of me to a point i couldn't take any more and dont talk to them any more... i have a hobby which is bodybuilding, I've never had the one thing i want... a girlfriend... but i dont know maybe im not the type of guy girls go for as i might be boring? This really depresses me Well today i was alone and thought id go to the brothel again... on the way for some reason... i just went back home and im really happy about that as its not what i want! I see couple onthe street all the time (some guys whom i think i am better looking and maybe better to talk to) and i wonder how they do this? Is it because i have no life and dont meet any 1... i mean i go to uni and havent met any 1... i just feel the people there are too like posh for me while im more laidback ..I just want help and advice on how i can meet some 1... i know people say just go out... but i dont like going to places by myself as im very shy and have no1 to go with! Uhm... also any other advice people want to give? I just feel liek a idiot right now :(
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (18 October 2009):
 at some point in peoples lives they have done that or something similar so dont feel so bad. perhaps you were just in the wrong circle of friends. true friends can take a life time to find sometimes they fall in your lap. you need to either find a new hobby or try some friendly sites to meet new friends and such like in your area once you expand this circle it will open up new doors for you but if you do not try and put yourself out their then you will be stuck in a rut. some people like bebo or okcupid or some people play games on line and meet people through that after they have spent time to get to know them sometiems its people you know from the past and want to be friends with again.. you like bodybuilding so perhaps their are sports you would prefer to try out at your local clubs ?. their are many things to consider doing. you need to build on your confidence. someone out their will love you its just finding that person isnt the easiest part. someone once said you got to kiss alot of frogs before finding the right one. good for you not going back that is showing determination so use that to find things to help you move your life forward. keep us updated! good luck aphex xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): the best places to hook up with someone is through a friend/ perhaps at a party or some type of gathering. another place is a on-line dating service. make sure whoever you meet. that you get along with her. sex is just the icing on the cake.
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