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anonymous
writes:i like this guy,but he is married and happy.i see him once every fortnight at work.what shoul i do for he notice me,please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): You know, I'd hate to think that my husband and I are very happy together and there's a woman on his job that is not "accidentally" but PURPOSELY trying her best to get his attention in a romantic way. Realize that a happy marriage is not easy. It's hard work. It's just like being on a job for years, putting in long hard hours... doing everything you have to and more. You get that promotion that you have been working so hard for and here comes some chick that wears skirts to her ass, shirts below her nipples... and suddenly out of nowhere, you get fired... hmmm... There goes everything that you've worked for and more. You're miserable and all you can think about is how much of your life you've waisted and everything that you've done to get that promotion... I can't speak for God, but in my heart, I honestly don't believe that he would bless your relationship if you did get with this guy. And like the other person said... if he would leave his wife for you, what makes you think he wouldn't leave you for the next pretty face on the job? I can understand being attracted to someone... and admiring them and the life that they hold down. But you shouldn't ruin everything that he and his wife has worked for. Maybe you don't care about his wife. But, if you care about this guy... don't you think he would eventually regret leaving his wife for you? You would only be a new toy. And once he's played with you for a little while, he will get bored, and you will end up at the bottom of the toy box. He will realize that he ruined his life. Especially if you are not as good to him as you thought you'd be. And you only know him from working one shift with him! You don't even know if the two of you will click like that. WHAT ABOUT HIS KIDS?! Does he have any? What will that do to his DAUGHTER. As women, we need our fathers. We need them to show us how men should be treating us and all of the bull we shouldn't have to put up with. If she can't look up to him for those answers, it will not only ruin his wife's life, but also hers.FIND ANOTHER PRETTY FACE. IT'S ONLY INFACTUATION.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): Turn on the charm. Think like a man and act like a lady. Show your wit and smile alot, complain little(they already have that at home.)
Wear your best perfume, an keep the make-up low key. (married men can't afford a high maintenance female)
Do small helpful things (this will get your "foot in th door")Compliment his inteligence and flatter him. Married people no matter how happy they are forget that the "little things" mean the most,
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): you could try telling his wife that you fancy him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): you just made me laugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
seriously, you are joking right? i like satins answer. the thing about the threesome is also good. at least his wife can also f*ck you as well. they can then laugh about it later ......................
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (18 October 2009):
 I question why you are interested in a married man.
why you want attention from him. Is it the challenge?
So what happens if you get him... will you dump him because the fun is over?
What about his Wife?
I don't know what is going on in your head but you need to get a reality check.
You don't care about anybody but yourself. If he is happily married leave him alone.
Is it because you want him to give you the happy life he is giving to his wife?
Look, there are a million single men out there.
Leave this man alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): I can't believe somebody would actually ask for advice on how to be a homewrecker. You know he's happily married so what the hell are you thinking? How would you feel if you were in a perfectly happy relationship with somebody and had done nothing wrong, and then found out there was some skank at your boyfriends workplace trying it on with him? Especially if she KNEW that he was already with somebody!
Find a single man to seduce, there are thousands out there. Maybe you think that he's special, but so are plenty of the ones who havent already created a happy home with another woman.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (18 October 2009):
 Seduce his wife and get her to invite you for a threesome.
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reader, penelopepitstop +, writes (18 October 2009):
 hes okay for a look at nothing else keep clear of him, hes a happy married man, a very rare thing, so let him be
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reader, nicollieollie  +, writes (18 October 2009):
Please dont be a homewrecker. Going after married men is one thing, but going after a HAPPILY married man?! That is just not right. How would you like it if someone did that to you and ruined your life?
I suggest you spend your efforts on a worthy , single man.
And remember, any married man that cheats on his wife with you, will cheat on you too.
Theres a saying that goes:
" anytime a man leaves his wife for the mistress, he leaves a vacancy in that spot "
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): Are you crazy? Why would you want to waste your time? He's happily married. Why don't you find someone who is single and quit trying to mess up someone else's good thing. How would you like it if you were married to some great, sexy guy only to find out there's some smarmy girl at his office trying to find a way to steal him from you. You are worst than scum in my opinion. Please re-think your obsession and leave this guy alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): People never cease to amaze me. I find it hard to believe that this does not even strike you as 'not okay'. Please give your head a shake and snap out of it.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (18 October 2009):
 You dont. You stop trying to get him to notice you. He doesnt want to notice you. As you say yourself he is HAPPY and MARRIED!!!!!!
WHY do you want to break up his happy marriage?
Stop being so SELFISH. Find a SINGLE man to chase.
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