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*ohnny c 66
writes:I met my girl friend on july 19th 2008, when we met i was seperated for 6 months and i was getting divorced and had no kids. After a month when I realized how much I realy liked her i told her i had to tell her something we met and I told her i had 4 kids she had some trash that she broke down and told me too. the divorce is going slow and child support,custody and property have made it go one for some time,plus she doesnt want to cooperate.so my girlfriend is telling me i am handeling the whole divorce wrong,and harassing me over the situation constantly and my ex to be is making threatining phone calls to her about 5 total. Know there 1 more lie that i was trying to break to her that I dont know why it didnt come out when i told her about the kids was that I had a 4 year old girl too, this was in nov. 08.my ex-wife to be has bipolar,bulimia and shes a cutter she has cheated on me 4 times in 17 years, I would never go back to her! well know i have a team of lawyers criminal and divorce the criminal because she lured me into buying food for the kids and when i got there the police were waiting to arrest me,so now i have a restraining order violation court date soon and my lawyer doesnt want her there and the ex wants to get back with me so he told me to lead her on so she wont be at the court hearing well ex forwarded the text to my girl friend and now my girlfriend dumped me, we struggled thru the whole relationship waiting for my divorce now that im finally at the final stamp of divorce she dumped me because she cant handle the wife and says she will always be there to harass useven though I followed my girl friend to a whole nother state to be with her!! bottom line the day she recieved the text she told me I was the love of her life and the man of her dreams and she never loved anybody the way she loved me, that nite the text from the ex then the following morning she didnt want to be with me and wasnt in love anymore, now her brother called me saying he liked me better than anyone of her boy friends and we never talk on the phone ever we talked for an hour ande he asked why i lied, and her best friend left me a message on facebook just wanted to send you a quick message - cuz I can only imagine that right now SUCKs for you. Take good care of yourself and your kiddos. I will take good care of Nad. Be well John!Meg ce book saying "Are we finished I feel shes just punishing me??
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (17 October 2009):
 Dude....
what are you doing here?
You need to not be in any type of relationship with anyone right now. You have more problems than a damn math book. I suggest you just be by yourself until the divorce goes through. sounds like you have a wing nut for a wife, and an even bigger wing nut of a GF.
Either you enjoy this drama, or you are ignorant of the larger situation. You have kids to worry about and they come first. Not you, your wife, or your GF...THE KIDS!
You had em, now take care of them and worry about this other stuff when you can actually handle a relationship.
and please understand that paragraphs are your friend. That whole block in one made my eyes burn as much as your skewed priorities
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): I am sorry but I could not understand half of your letter. It is very difficult to understand what exactly happened here. This is what I got: You are going through a divorce. You lied to your girlfriend about having kids. One month into the relationship it is okay that you have not told her everything, but a year or more later she should know. Second: how can anyone "lure" you into buying food for your kids when the cops are already waiting for you? She was clearly joined by the cops, who are just as much responsible for this "trick". The way you describe the situation without telling what you did in order to get a restraining order makes it sound like you are not really aware of your own situation.If your girlfriend tried to tell you you are handling things wrong maybe you should listen to her, because you dont make much sense of yourself. And yes: you are finished. I don't think she's punishing you, I think she's taking care of herself. And it sounds like you think the world spins around you. Maybe your ex-wife isnt the only one with a psychosis. Get some professional help or straighten yourself out and be honest with both yourself and everyone else from now on.
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