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writes:My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We connect by having phone sex almost everyday. But all the sudden, it has seemed to stop. He doesn't want it as much and says it doesn't turn him on like it used to. I don't mind not having phone sex, it's just I don't like the feeling of knowing that he's going to go off masturbating to porn. I feel betrayed in a way. It may just be my insecurity but I'd rather not have him masturbate. But that's probably too much to ask for from a guy. I'm just scared that he will end up enjoying to watch porn more than he will want to talk to me. Am I just being paranoid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): Firstly i cant help wondering why you have phone sex when you have a pc and webcams are so cheap. Maybe your using your phone to send video's and pics but still. That costs money and its free on the pc. Phone sex is just talking dirty isnt it ? Its so 70s. Slightly better than nothing but not nearly as much fun as cybersex. And cybersex is basically masturbating and gets frustrating. Nothing really compares to the real thing. But you soon stop bonking five times a day with a new partner when the novelty wears off and then its five times a week..then three. Therefore its understandable that phone sex soon loses its appeal. You wont stop him masturbating to porn but you may force him to lie to you about it if it gives him a peacefull life. But if it bothers you that much why dont you make your own porn and send it to him. I am assuming that he can be trusted of course.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe still talks to me normally. like he'd be like "hey I don't want phone sex can I masturbate by myself please?"I don't like the feeling but I let him.I guess everything is okay if it's just a guy thing xP
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 October 2009):
Men respond to visual aids. i.e. porn. Naturally, he will find it easier to climax seeing porn than hearing you over the phone. However, if he's not talking to you as much, be aware that this could be the start of the end of your relationship. LDR's are very hard to maintain, and if one person is not totally commmitted to making it work, it will fail. So talk to him and make sure he's happy with this LDR. Good luck.
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