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writes: my boyfriend is a senior and im a sophomore, hes 18 im 16. homecoming is on friday and he wont take me. he says he doesnt wana go so i said i was jus gona go and he said we will break up if i go without him.. i asked why and he said "because its a dance... and im not going... and its jus like wtf?" so i said ok we'll jus do something else and he said "oh no. IM doing something else. jus go do what u want" so i said ok and he said "but we will break up if u go to that dance". i rly wana go with my gfs, otherwise im jus gona be home on a friday night... he still wont go but what should i do? i rly dnt wanaa lose him. is he bluffing maybe? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 October 2009):
Why would you let some boy control you like this?
The number one rule a girl must learn when she starts dating is that you NEVER let a boy tell you what to do.
If he does then he's NO GOOD.
Go to the dance and if he gets annoyed then it proves he doesn't want you to be happy, he just wants you to do what he says.
If he cared about you or loved you, he'd want you to be happy and you should never ever be in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Bliz  +, writes (15 October 2009):
His behavior is unreasonable, and way out of line, whether he is bluffing or not.
I don't want to sound alarmist, but controlling behavior like this is not a good sign, and he has absolutely no right to do this to you or anyone. Since you are young, please make sure your parents know that he is being manipulative, just so that they can keep an eye out for you.
Aside from that, go out and enjoy the dance with your girlfriends! Life is far to short for manipulative games. You are young, there are only so many home coming dances in your life, why not have a great time?
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reader, Shannet +, writes (15 October 2009):
 He can't tell you what to do. It's your homecoming, you should be able to go enjoy it with your girls.
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