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writes:my live in b/f of two years won't touch me during foreplay or during intercourse. i do all the work, hell i'm the one that always makes the first move,and when i ask him why he says "i never give him a chance". i'm always sucking his dick until he says "want to have sex" then I get on top work myself up, get the big O, then finish him with a hand job or a bj and to top things off he is always looking at porn on the net.what does this mean that he isn't really all that into me?
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reader, Illithid +, writes (15 October 2009):
 Sounds like my ex. She would never seek me out, only waiting for me to initiate. Then she would never care whether I got one, or how I felt. She wouldn't do the work. In my case, she just wasn't that into me.
In your case, he may be into you, but clearly he doesn't CARE about your needs (possibly about you in general). Talk to him, back off and make him chase you and initiate things. Stop sucking unless he eats you first. Make him be on top when he comes to you and asks for sex.
If he doesn't pursue you or take over the work, you have to decide if he's right for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): I had a similar problem. I had to make the move and it ended up me givng a hand job or bj until he came. I changed this by stopping once I noticed he laid back and didn't touch me back. He noticed he wasn't getting the same attention and he was after me. U should try to be tough and not give in easily.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (15 October 2009):
 In my opinion, it is not necessarily correct that he is "not all that into" you, but he may be taking you for granted. In other words, a bit selfish - or possibly VERY selfish, based on your descriptions. Does he always make sure that you enjoy the big O, or is that process entirely up to you? If the latter, then it sounds like you are receiving a raw deal there.
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