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writes:I feel really low as I think my 2 year LDR relationship is breaking down and I don't know if there is anything I can do about it. The reason I think it is breaking down is that it feels like history is repeating itself again. When I split with my ex boyfriend, he was cross with me for being quiet at an event he had organised. He didn't ask me what was wrong, but simply went silent on me for a week and a half and then came around one evening to dump me.On this occasion, I have felt like my boyfriend isn't being entirely honest with me about things. A couple of weeks ago, he told me to get rid of his old mobile numbers as he no longer had the phones but the very next day I received a text from one of these old numbers. He insists he got rid of the numbers but some of the words are spelt in only the way he would spell them! (I suppose my bf may have forgotten to take the SIM card out and whoever bought one of his old phones sent me one of his existing texts?). At this time, I was also having a really rough time at work but he didn't offer me any support. I organised a fun night out with my boyfriend and some of my friends for last Saturday. I had a feeling he was going to blow me out because normally he will call me on the Thurs or Fri to confirm arrangements however this call never came. Sure enough, an hour before we were due to go out he messaged me to say that he had got stuck in traffic travelling back from work 180 miles away. I tried to call him the following day to try to find out what was going on but got no response. Since then he hasn't tried to contact me at all. He could be having major problems himself or he doesn't want to see me anymore. It just seems so out of character for him. I can't stand the not knowing what's going on. Any suggestions as to how I deal with this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): Hello. Im sorry to hear things havent worked out with your bf. Try calling the number having blocked yours first and see who answers. It does sound very odd that he told you he no longer had the phone yet you recieved a text from him. Maybe you instincts are right. You gave him 2 years of your time and love. You deserve better than this. Contact him and say you need closure if he isnt seeing you anymore and you need to know why. He owes you that. All the best
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