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writes:I dated this guy (andrew-not real name) 4 yrs ago but remained friends because I had a bf that time and lost contact with, I broke up with my bf (now ex) late last year after suffering a very unstable relationship with him. Now, andrew and I has a good thing going online (long distance relationship), and he is visiting me from abroad this coming holidays. He spent so much money for the trip, to give you an idea, the amount is way more than enough to spend for a higher end engagement ring. My question, is this andrew guy for real? I am very happy with him, he is the kind of guy that will make a woman ask "is he for real?" and I admit, at times, the idea that he is just another casanova comes in my head. He is just too good to be true. What do you think? He for real? Is he really in love with me? or he is just not cheap when it comes to women. I am starting to fall for him. Help, im worried Im risking it all for a wrong guy, again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ L*, I wont let him down. This is it. Everything is planned out. So I will see him in December. Thank for answering.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Oldersister, you may be right. I am overreacting. I just was not used to a guy spending that much for me. This is just my second attempt for love, honestly. So as for standards, I really have no idea. My ex never had that effort anyway. Thanks for your answer. will keep in mind not to be exaggerating on things.
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reader, L*  +, writes (15 October 2009):
if he's spending lots of money on a trip to come to see you, then he DEFINITELY is interested in you. are you interested in him? or will you let him down again? If you're not sure, you'd better be honest and upright with him, don't let him spend the money and then break his heart.
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