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anonymous
writes:My stepbrother is always touching my butt and asking me for sexual favors does he like mi?And i think he is sending mi mixed messages and its creeping mi out!!!! I need answers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Tell your parents, that is NOT appropriate behaviour from a brother! Step or not!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Yes, quite right for you to have scolded me. Where were my politically correct manners? My apologies to the prudish and lesbian readership.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Ummmm, Anonymous guy... LESBIAN POSTERS?? Not only are you sexist, but also, quite tasteless and I think that you are also being quite insensitive to the whole homosexual community (and I happen to strongly object to that)!
So, really, until you don't correct your attitude, I wish you'd stay away from voicing these regressive Neanderthal thoughts!
Really, we are here to help others, by our choice, so mind your language!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): You say it is creeping you out. If something creeps you out don't encourage it. Next time he does that, and each time after that if he dares, ask him to stop, sternly. Take this as training for people who you will encounter who will want you and be troll-like about it.
Emilyanswers is right. If someone is touching your butt and asking for sexual favours, it does not mean he likes you.
And to anonymous male: A stepbrother means they could actually share one parent. Apart from age of consent depending on which state she is living. I am sure desperate teeagers would like to believe that if they touch a teenaged girl's butt, she'll be overcome with desire. But sadly for the said teens, it is not true. She's clearly asking if he "likes" her and I am sure grown men and women can read that to see what it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Earlier posters... What if she likes him touching her butt? Hmmmm? Unlike the many prudish lesbian posters we routinely get on this board, some young women actually like to have men physically touch them (yikes!) and aren't completely disgusted by a man's sexuality (really?)
To the poster of the question:
First, is he hot? Do you want him?
If so, trust me, there aren't any laws that can stop you two from getting it on together that I know about. It's not like he/you are going to sue for sexual harassment. You're not really even brother/sister. Just because your mother/father got remarried doesn't make you family.
The fact is, if you want him... go for it. But remember, if it doesn't work out in the end, you'll have to deal with him for a looonnnngggg time to come - unless your mother/father decide to divorce or separate. That might be uncomfortable to say the least.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Hes a sleaze bag, carry a hair brush and next time he touches you smack his hand. If he shouts then tell him youll let your parents know.
Any Guy who genuinely likes you will treat you with respect.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 October 2009):
This is a common mistake to make for girls your age.
You think that by touching you he must "like you" and want to be your boyfriend.
It doesn't work like that. If he liked you, he'd treat you with respect and want to spend time with you.
What he wants is a girl who he can use for sexual stuff and brag to his friends about. He thinks you're easy because you haven't turned round, slapped him in the face and told your parents about it.
You NEED to tell him to bugger off, and get some self respect. Why does he get to touch you like that? Boys have to EARN the right to touch you in those places and as for just asking for sexual favours.... does he think you are a prostitute or what???
Tell your parents and tell him to leave you the hell alone.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Hi
I think that no matter who that person is or how closely related to you... nothing NOTHING EVER gives him the right to touch any woman's butt and ask for sexual favors. I don't think that he likes you, i think that he is being gross, taking advantage of a relationship like that. And, if he does like you, then this is a very obnoxious way of showing it and I wouldn't want you to go out with such a person, but then no he doesn't like you.
Tell him to back off and never ever touch you that way ever again! (how old is he, btw? BE very careful if he is older). And, if he still doesn't stop, tell your parents.
Best of Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Seriously... he sounds like a horn dog if he's trying to hit on his step sister. You should talk to your parents about what's going on, just in case something happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): What do you like him too? If you don't you should tell your mom or dad to stop him. Try to be safe yourself. Lock your door when you sleep.Take care of your self.
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