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writes:my bf and i have been together for 18 months and have a 7 week old daughter together.he has threatened my life recently and last night he really crossed the line- he grabbed me by the arms and pushed me really hard ( i think i was 1 step away from a punch in the face) and yelled at our daughter right up in her face to "shut the fuck up". i had police turn up to try and get rid of him and of course he put on his act and pretended nothing was wrong and i was hitting him etc. the police bought it and said there's nothing they can do. ( i think the fact i am only 17 worked against me because they thought i was just a stupid kid with a kid) so now he is back to his old self and is saying i am a slut, bitch, whore, mole, liar.. etc. refuses to pay my mum his board (rent) now and is being a complete ass to try and get along with. he tells me he cant stand me and wants out, but he wont leave. what do i do
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2009):
Well it's great that you've seen that this is bad and that you want out. Pack your bags and get out. Make sure your mother knows, make sure your friends know. Do not stay there with this guy, for your safety. Also, tell the police again. And keep a record of everything he does adn says to you, on paper somewhere. Dates, times, exact words. But the most important thing is that you get away from this man now. Lots of luck.
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reader, cheery64 +, writes (16 October 2009):
GET AWAY PLEASE! lve just ended a relationship just that way-dont take the chance of it getting worse x
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reader, Spades  +, writes (16 October 2009):
 Pack your bags!
If I were in that situation, I would try phoning my mum.
See if you and your daughter can stay there for a few days while you try to figure out what your next move is.
Then i would contact the police and inform them of the situation.
There are people you can talk to to help you get through this. But right now the main issue if you and your daughters safety.
Let me know how things work out.
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): call the police again and tell them whats going on. If you call again they wont be able to ignore it. Where was your mother when this happened? She camn back you up.Is it possible for you to move out? If so do it, your daughter doesnt need to see her dad likie that and the longer you stay the more damage its doing to you.Id stop. Just stop arguing with him and definately dont sleep with him. Dont tell him ask him to leave and reason with him, keep calling the police if he gets rough and hopefully he will leave
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