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*eefee stush
writes:my boyfriend and i started having sex before we got together cause during that time he seem to be confuse.rite after he took my virginity lets say a few weeks after he started having sex with our manager but when he had sex with her he came out and told me the next day.i was crushed,but i remained claim. well they had sex for two months and then he told me that they stopped. he also told that she wanted a relationship and he told her no.he said they are now friends and she lets him use the car well her.huh? why would she lend him the car if they are not involved?we had a huge arguement about it and that is when he told me he is feeling like he lost a soul mate(he was referring to me).a few weeks later he asked me to be in a relationship so i asked if he is sure and ready for one he said yes.now i am still having trust issues that i am trying to get over with him.i think that he is living two lives.but he always come out and tell me if he does something wrong.what should i do?i fell in love with a long time ago.i just want to know if he really cares.he tells his friends i am his girl friend but too me it does means nothing cause alot of people don't know about us,and i am 22 years old and this is my first boyfriend the first person i had sex with my first everything so i need to know what to do.
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reader, feefee stush +, writes (18 October 2009):
feefee stush is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey i am new to dis hope i am doing the right thing:thank you gina for your advice but it is very hard for me to follow i am really stress and hurt.i think i may need some more helpp,the advice dat you gave me is more like me but i still need to do some soul searching,,,,,,,thanks alot ginalolabridga
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (15 October 2009):
 Well sorry to say this hun but i dont see this relationship lasting! Hes obviously a cheater and i dont see him getting your trust back...its harder to lose it than it is to get it! You will never be able to fully trust him. If nothing was going on, i highly doubt hed be using her car! You cant have a relationship without love, trust, honesty and loyalty! I think you should break up with him and move on! You could do much better! Good luck!
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