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writes:Okay so I really need a guys advice, I have been with the same guy for about 4 months! I seriously love him so much! We have had a pretty good relationship so far, not many fights, we did have one break up but got back together cause we were crazy for eachother but just today he seemed very distant from me, he didn't talk to me very much today and when we said goodbye he didn't tell me he loved(like he normally does) so I was just wondering if this is a sign that he's going to break up with me? Or does he just need time to himself and will be back to normal tomorrow? Please help I would really appreciate it :)
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reader, sandiego619 +, writes (15 October 2009):
 I dont think so. Maybe somethings just bothering him. Asks him what the matter is. If its something to do with your relationship try to talk about it and work it out. It may not have anything to do with your relationship at all. Youll never know though until you ask him about it.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (15 October 2009):
 Sorry, not a guy but I'll offer my two cents.
If you think something's wrong then there's a high possibility there is. I've learned to trust my gut feeling when it comes to men because it's usually right. If you feel they've suddenly changed, if you feel they're distant, something's up. It's possible that something else is going on in his life but we can't know that.
What I don't understand is why you're on here asking this if you've been with the guy for 4 months...at this point you should be comfortable enought to ask him and talk to him.
Call him, listen to what he says, what his tone of voice is like. Don't ask him if something is wrong...just call to say hello, ask how his day was, ask him to go out etc...you will know by the tone of his voice and his answers whether it's you or something else.
It's no use analyzing things over and over because you're going to drive yourself insane. You need to talk to him hun. Call him, just make conversation...and trust your gut instinct.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): You should wait little bit and see how is go. If he seen like he don't love you anymore like he don't say he love you all day, not answer your phone call, he don't want to talk to you, something like that.And you should ask him why you feel far away from him, see what he said.
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