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writes:okay i am 14, my mam knows i might be pregnant i told her this morning now she has gone to work so i am very scared for when she comes home okay i came on my period last month a week after i had sex and now i am 19 days late on this months period i have put on a bit of weight and just this week my boobs have started to feel heavy and around my nipple the is a darker circul and i just feel pregnant this morning made me think i was more than ever because i woke up at about 5 am with really bad cramps i could not get comftable and then at about 7.00 am i threw up not loads like a bug just a little bit so i am now off school and dreading my mam coming home how can i preper my self for taking that test if it comes up positive should i get an abortion for my mum help i am really worried
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have not been on in ages just thought i would let u know. luckly i wasnt pregnant i was seriously ill and ended up needing an operation which cased my perods to be late thanks anyways xx
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (15 October 2009):
 You are pregnant! thats what i can read. 14 years old my god! if im the mother i will be very angry and tell to make an abortion because you are still minor. but you as the one whos pregnant you are the one who will really decide because as a mother i wouldnt take words back from you in the end that i am the reason you lose your first child. so you better be smart right NOW. not tommorow not next month, must be now. if you think you can able to buy the baby a food, pampers, milk and able to bring the baby grow, school etc. all child needs. then you must know you can stand on the responsabilities. Then do it. but if not" then you must be very, very reasonable in your decision right now. But in the end of this, im still hoping that you are not pregnant. good luck.....
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (15 October 2009):
 Wow at your young of age you should not be having this problem,you are way too young to be having sex, i can only imagine how disappointed and angry your mom must be!Im sorry you have to go through something like this so young,i know its not just your fault!You can prepare yourself by getting a job,it will be hard to get one because your only 14 but you can get one whether its babysitting or cleaning houses!Tell your mom that and she will know that your going to try which will make her a little less angry!I wouldnt get an abortion because you need to take responsibility for your actions!Although it will be hard on you because your so young but you dont want to live the rest of your life regretting having an abortion and wondering what if!You might not be pregnant also,hopefully not,and if you arent i hope you will have learned something and wait to have sex until you think youre ready to have a baby because theres always that possibility because NO protection is 100%.At least use protection though!Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): First of all, I'm very proud of you for talking to your mom about it in the first place! Many girls on here ask about ways they can hide this from their parents and everything, and we all tell them that they NEED to tell them. It looks like you got that all figured out, and I'm sure at least some would say that's one of the hardest parts, especially at your age.
Secondly, you should definitely take a test and find out if you're pregnant, you can go to the doctor for that too. I'm not sure of pregnancy symptoms enough to say whether or not what you're feeling is normal, but I'm sure others here have more insight.
Your mum is going to be upset, probably angry, but in the end she's still your parent and loves you, and she'll probably be one of the best people to help you though all this. Are you two close? If the test comes up positive, that's what happens, so don't stress about it now. Stress can also delay your period, by the way, not to mention that at your age they probably haven't regulated themselves entirely yet. Was the sex you had unprotected?
Lastly, don't get an abortion for anyone but YOURSELF. It's your choice, and if you get an abortion FOR your mum, you may really regret that decision and even resent her for 'making' you get one if you feel that way. Although I don't personally approve of abortion, there are any number of legitimate medical reasons to have one, in my opinion. The important thing is that no matter what you decide you make sure it's what YOU want to do and that you talk to your doctor as soon as you're sure of being pregnant so that they can help you as best they know how. This isn't a medical site, so there's only so much we can do to advise you. If you have other questions feel free to message me or any of the other people who I'm sure will be giving excellent advice (far better than mine).
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