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writes:help! i really like this guy....who has a past of cheatin on his ex gfs... he has told me he likes me back...his ex and i all know each other we all go to church i dont think they know i like him so everytime im around them they would bring up the relationship with him and never have anything good to say and they can tlk for hours about him... is it me or when u really like someone only then u still talk about them for hours! even though u broke up and went several ways..and i know this guy would probably be weak towards them idk he told me he has learned ALOT from his previous relationship and after everything he runs thru my mind all the time! what to do?? leave things as is or talk to him??
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow thanks for all the advice and im gonna try to be logical about this and not be with him i recently tld him i dont like him idk (i lied) idk if that helps the situation....... but im def gonna take actions into gettin over him i dont wanna be hurt .. once again everything that was said here is being considered thank u sooo much=)
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reader, Shannnnoooon-x  +, writes (16 October 2009):
maybe if you like hima lot you should speak to him tell him that of cause you trust him but your worried that it might happen to you and see what he says and dont worry bout them girls they can say what they want they all went out with him so why cant you ?
good luck x
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reader, cc62955p +, writes (16 October 2009):
wow..im 25 years old and something similar happened to me..if he has a cheating past or continues talking to ex's no matter how interested you are in this man i would avoid him like the plague and stick with your friends before you even give him a chance to hurt you too. My "now" ex bf strung me along in a relationship and used me for 2 years while continuing to talk to his ex and after he would do things with me Id find out he would run to her and then I got the hateful messages from her saying they were just friends, then his family had a huge fight with me on their porch to break us up and he couldve cared less..its been over a year now and he is engaged...Im heartbroken and since then I started losing people i cared about from deaths and illness in my family. when i called him after we broke up to talk about it I heard girls laughing in the background and he just hung up on me *after I went to a wake!*...cheaters are selfish people- find a giving and loving friend who will care for you. at least I know he wont have the chance to cheat on me or betray me again, it seems the worst is over ....Let me know what you think of my story and best of luck in whatever choice you make. I would avoid this guy though!
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