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writes:I was going through a stage of wanking over gay porn for a while then as soon as cumming I imagine a girl or tits etc(I stopped a few days ago), and it is really confusing me because I find girls attractive and have only ever fancied girls but although I am 18 I have only had sex once with one girl and that was in a relationship almost a year ago (I have only kissed a girl in a club since then)I would say from time to time I am lonely as I haven't been with a girl or fancied one since a year ago.I would say I am a very horny person and did lap it up when I was with my ex, but since I was going on the internet reading about people's own stories of wanking over gay porn it has made me worry more, they are saying do you find other guys attractive and I think no but because I have done so much looking into the topic everywhere I go I seem to be asking myself do I find him attractive?, do I find her attractive?, I have never done anything sexual to a another guy, and as far as I know I don't want to but all this worrying and reading other people's stories has got me so confused and I just don't know what to think of myself. It's like my mind is so misty from everything I have been worrying about that I can't clearly think.Any help would be great as I am in a really bad place at the moment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): you say you find girls attractive and only fancied girls your straight just because a straight man watches gay porn doesnt make him gay. What would make you gay is if you wanted to have sex or a relationship with a man in real life dont worry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): Well, I have two suggestions. Try giving up the gay porn for a couple of months to see if things change and hang out with some gay men to see if they awake anything in you. Only you can find the answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): I am a gay man, i used to have a girfriend when i was 13 and we used to have sex all the time i would have never imagined i was gay! when i turned about 15 16 when i used to masterbate i used to find myself looking at the man in porn and cocks and then on just full gay porn all the time! i found it hard to comes to terms with and tried to stop myself for years trying to supress it! but when i was 18 i couldnt stop, so i met up with guys for sex and this is when i realised i was properly gay, when i turned 20 i met this really nice fella! and i came out to everyone gradually and it was absolutely great, living such a supressed life for so long i forgot what living normal was. everyone was fine with it and i worried about nothing! all that matters mate, is you are what you are so just let yourself find your feet in your own time there is really nothing to worry about! as you get older you will realise this and regret all the time you spent worring about nothing.
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