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What can I do, my boyfriend raped me?

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Question - (15 October 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *oxyrex writes:

help Im 16 and my boyfriend is 25 andw when we were in his car he drove far away and raped me and he keeps sayind and texting he'll do it agian when hes not busy.It hurts and hes mates say and have tried too have sex with me help!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2009):

Go to the police NOW!

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A female reader, j98 United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2009):

get away from him. tell people what happened, if you cant tell your family (sisters if possible are easiest), tell a friend, once you speak about this you will have to find a way out because no one can explain or excuse what he has done, do not make excuses for this, you are too young for him, his age is a control over you, you can not and should not have to go through this

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A female reader, Spades Canada +, writes (16 October 2009):

Spades agony auntI agree with the above responses. Even though he is your boyfriend, that does not give him right to violate you the way he did.

I would contact the police. Keep all the texts on your phone as evidence. And tell your parents.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009):

phone police you. Go.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009):

The police need to hear about this. Take your phone and show them his texts. He deserves prison.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (15 October 2009):

Illithid agony auntIf an older man is raping you and threatening to rape you again and you're afraid, you NEED to talk to the police.

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A female reader, YourDestiny11 United States +, writes (15 October 2009):

YourDestiny11 agony auntOmg you need to call and the police immediately and press rape on that jerk, not only will he get rape, he will get stagatory rape also! You need to talk to your parents and the police immediately and stay far away from him! I know its scary hun but you dont want to always be scared when your out and about! You need to at least tell someone: counselor, parents police...someone!!! Please keep me updated! Good luck. If you need to talk privately then email me.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (15 October 2009):

AuntyEm agony auntYou need to tell your parents and also the police. It's the only way it will stop.

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A female reader, Rachel O United Kingdom +, writes (15 October 2009):

Rachel O agony auntNo man has the right to do that to you

you need to be brave and go tell you parents and then go to the police. delete his number. its a hard thing to do to say what has happened to you, but your going to have to do it hun otherwise like he said he will do it again.

xx

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