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writes: Quick question. Do you think that the person who you love and who doesn't love you back is simply not right for you? Or is it possible to know Mr. or Mrs. Right, the only issue is that he or she is just not that into you?Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 October 2009):
You're trying to justify pursuing someone who isn't interested. I'm guessing all your friends are telling you to get over them and you don't want to.
It can feel good to be that romantic victim, who will die waiting like a poem. Plus, you are scared that if you decide to get over that person and start looking for someone else, it means that your true undying love was a lie?
It's not. What you are feeling now will always be there deep down, you'll always have memories of this time.
But there are 2 types of people in this world. Those who let their heart run the show, and those that study their heart but make the smart choice.
The first type lose their friends because they don't talk about anything else but how tortured they are, will NEVER be happy in life, and probably get beaten to death because they stay in bad relationships too long.
The second type realise that love is great, but happiness is more important, and people change so love can never stay the same with one person.
Leave this as it is, accept that having it in your life story will make you a bigger person from the experience and then MOVE ON!!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, nicole90  +, writes (15 October 2009):
 Recently I broke up with my boyfriend and he swore we were meant to be together. He said he would do anything to save our relationship. I just didn't love him as much as he did me. I think there are times when people get carried away emoitionally and think too much of things. And I agree when birdy says love is mutual.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 October 2009):
 The right person is one who loves you back, of course. Devotion has to be mutual, and love and relationships just don't work if the other person isn't into you too. There isn't just one person who is "Mr. or Mrs. Right", it's a matter of fit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): If s/he isn't into you, then s/he was never Mr./Mrs. Right in the first place.
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