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30-35,
*henextmro
writes:Hey guys, this one's gonna be a bit long. Before we start lemme say i am not this kinda guy. Normally im a horny sex freak, and all i think about is sex. This is something new to me, cause i actually fell for someone.For time being, im gonna name her Mary, and im just gonna say my name is jack. So, i met this girl through a friend, an okay friend.(female). This friend, liked to make shit up and one day it pissed me off, so mary came to say sorry so i would talk to this friend again. Mary said sorry using aim, but i haden't seen who she was yet. Instantly, I knew that i liked that chick (Mary). Three months later i saw her and i realized i really did like her. I didnt say anything or even talk to her much for that matter. We talked here and there on facebook but thats about it. NOW, we have bootcamp together and we got really really close. (Nothing physical, just good friendship). Over the summer we talked tons. School started recently, and everything has been amazing. We been talking tons. One day she told me she really liked this kid, i fell apart, but i didnt care. I still liked her. Eventually she didnt like this kid(she thought she couldnt let him go...blah...blah...blah but she did, i still liked her after that. VERY recently i fucked up real bad. I told that chick, that we met through (the one i was pissed at), that i reallllly liked her. Now even though that bitch promised she wouldnt say anything, i know she did. Regardless, a few days later, after class (I forgot to mention we have one class together this year, in which we see each other everyday and sit a seat away from each other)I started to ignore mary. The reason is, there was something wrong. I didnt care that she didnt tell me, but i told her ill see her later, and that she can take care of whatever she'd like to care of. She still claimed nothing was wrong, when i left there, i was REALLY pissed. I realized how she didnt tell me to get the fuck out of there, but instead wasn't normal. I knew it was about some other guy, but i don't care. Tell me to leave, ill leave. I dont wanna be an annoyance, cause i despise being an annoyance. So i didnt talk to her for a whole 3 days, she went EVERYWHERE to find me. I didn't go to class (i had another reason for not going to class which was being home on time due to my mom having back problems). i didnt talk to any of her friends, I didn't respond to her texts, pick up her calls. On 2 days ago, i realized her status changed, it went something along the lines of im tired of caring so go fuck yourself, i wasnt sure if this was for me, but i assumed it was. So i explained everything to her, and she didnt reply. I explained more and she didnt reply. At this point, she still hasen't replied, and i dont wanna go confront her and put her on the spot. What the f*** should i do? I deactivated my facebook, and im trying to stay off aim.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): okay babe if you know that amy is a trouble maker...dont tell amy things Especially about Mary. Try to find a place and an oppurtunity to sit down with mary and talk this out. I wish you the best...i remember the teenage years well and its pretty hard to figure it all out...hang in there, mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): oh the games that people play. Sweetie you need to be honest with your self and with mary....up until now you are both just playing games. Tag, youre it...tag back youre it... frankly im not sure you are either one ready for a relationship. try being friends again and go from there. mal
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reader, thenextmro +, writes (24 November 2009):
thenextmro is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwait hold on lemme clarify that a little bit...lets give the name the original friend i was pissed at too. Let's name her Amy. I TOLD AMY, that i liked mary. I didnt tell amy, that i liked amy. AMY went on and told mary cause she's a bitch like that. But they still think i dont know, that AMY told mary.
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