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Am I gay or what?

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Question - (24 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So I've been attracted to girls all my life but shortly after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me(2.5 years ago) I started getting these really strong sexual urges. These urges come by for about 3 days every six months. The thing about these urges is that they are geared toward men. It's completely sexual and I'm not attracted to men at all in the physical or romantic sense. I have never seen a guy as attractive. Well recently the sexual attraction is not limited to just those times I have the urges but the urge isn't nearly as strong. Does anyone know whats going on? I must stress again, I am not physicaly or romantically attracted to guys. Its purely sexual.

Also, when I was around 12-14 years old I tried on my mother's dresses and such and I found their dildo and tried to use it.. I don't know if that is related to this.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009):

I was the same way. Eventually I slept with a guy and realized despite not being attracted to men at all I loved gay sex. I consider myself bi- I'd never date a guy but I love having them in my bed!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009):

Hi

i once had to ask myself the same sort of question

im a straight girl however i sometimes dream (fantasize) about having sex with a woman and it really turns me on i also find lesbian porn a turn on aswell but i would never think about having sex with a woman because i dont feel attracted to them its just a sexual feeling and my boyfriend likes it because when im turned on i always want sex so he's happy aswell.

sorry, my point is that it might just be something that turns you on like a secret turn on it doesn't mean your gay.

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