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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid...I am a 21 year old Junior in college (should be a senior but due to poor grades am not) and have been been dating my girlfriend who is a Senior in a private University about an hour away from me. I've been with her for a few months now and have taken notice to her various academic accomplishments and extracurricular activities. She's very ambitious and career-oriented which doesn't bother me. I just don't feel as if I measure up at all when compared to her. I feel like she can do much better and have been haunted by these thoughts for the past few days. I'm not too sure what to do at this point and could really use advice.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 November 2009):
She's with you. That's all that matters here. The worst thing for you to do is to say she deserves better, because your confidence will fall through the floor, you'll end up insecure and jealous and she'll resent it. She is with you because she wants you, as you are. That's all that matters. If she wanted someone else, then she wouldn't be with you. So quit worrying about it and make sure you're focused on your own work, so you don't think you're not good enough.
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