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anonymous
writes:well i have this problem since a few months ...i am 22 and am doing an mba ...all my classmates hate me...they dont greet me or even like to talk to me ....even i try to talk to them then i really feel disappointed by the way they respond...some girls have EVEN INDIRECTLY warned me to not to talk to them WITHOUT ANYTHING HAPPENING ...they hug and greet my other fello classmates in front of me to make me feel jeolous and even pass funny comments....even guys dont like talk to me at all....they all dont find me interesting and talk very less with me ....i feel so heart broken seeing everyone so busy having fun around and girls hanging around with guys and i usually sit alone....its no use trying to get along as i feel i am not made for them and i dont seem to enjoy with them either!! everyone has something interesting or special about them except me i feel....the situation has become so worse that they even hate it even when i try to talk to them and they feel i am an attention seeker,big time loser nonsense guy and good for nothing. why do they feel weird coming close to me ? even some guys have started bullying me.. its becoming so painful and scary day by day...i am completely collapsed and my self esteem has been crushed....my life has become a liking hell and i am confused regarding wmy personality and what i want in life ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): No one has the right to make you feel like that!! i was almost in tears reading this not because i pity you but because i cant believe that their are pathetic people in this world who make people feel like this!
Hey if your in their class doing an MBA (which i think is great by the way) then your just the same as them actually your better than then because their pathetic people as i have mentioned lol.
Forget them kepp yourself to yourself if they dont want to know you then f*#k them their not worth you, do you know what the magic spell is to beat the curse of bullying is???
I'll tell you but keep it a secret its... CONFIDENCE (shhh dont tell anyone) :) as soon as you show them they you dont give a flying monkeys about what they have to say about you then they'll get bored and leave you alone...
BEST of luck with your MBA stick at it btw and that way your'll get a great qualification make loads of money and laugh at the guys who thought you were nothing.
:) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): First and foremost, no one has the right to make you feel bad about yourself or feel as though you aren't good enough for their attention. So, as hard as it is, try not to let other people get you down too much. These people sound very shallow and low...particularly if you feel they are making a show of ignoring you. I know its hard but try not to let them affect how you feel about yourself.
I was bullied for many years before i went to university and in the end i realised, it wasnt because i was so 'unspecial' like i had thought at the time - it was because of jealousy. So please please dont say that everyone has something interesting or special except you because that is NOT true! Everyone is special, including yourself, and you would do good to realise that immediately :)
However, no one has the right to bully you and you shouldn't just ignore that. Is there anyway you can get a class change? I'm sure feeling like this won't be doing you any good studywise either. I don't know exactly how your institution will work but i feel confident that they will have some sort of directorial support available. Do you feel like you could talk to a support officer or your supervisor? Even just by email, if not in person. It won't be easy, i know, but it might help a lot...at least to get you moved to a more friendly environment.
We all wonder at times if the decisions we are making in life are the right ones for us, but you decided to study for an MBA at one point, so i hope it isn't the nasty people you have unfortunately encountered that have made you doubt what you ultimately want! Take care of yourself and remember that you are special and worth being treated with respect and value just as much as anyone else is!!
Best wishes
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