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writes:I like a guy I met at university about 2 months ago.We instantly clicked and became really close when we met.We started seeing eachother but unnofficially after about 2 weeks, so we wouldn't jump into anything too soon seeing as we still couldn't have known stuff about eachother.But after a few weeks we just started acting more as friends, rather than more than that.I still saw him as more than a friend, we just were not acting like it. I think this was largely due on my part, seeing as I had just started university and I suddenly got really homesick all a sudden and kinda switched off in that department.Then last week he asked if we were just friends, and I agreed cos thats how we had been acting.But I got drunk a few nights ago and told him I still liked him and he told me he had moved on.So the next day I went round to his flat to ask him for space for a few days, mainly just not to come round to my flat for a few days, cos he's really good friends with some of my flatmates.I wasn't saying he can't talk to them or see them, I just didn't want to see him still at mine till 3am like he does half the time because he is round basically every night.He was also friends with them through me, not off his own accord, so I thought I had the right to just ask him to stay away from my home for abit.But we got into this massive argument cos he said i was being unreasonable, and unfair and he wasn't going to stay away. He seemed to care more about how my flat would react rather than what I thought I needed, saying space wouldn't help me.So after 3 hours of arguing, with a very manipulative person I think looking back, I agreed that it was fine for him to then keep coming over.But seeing how he acts with some of my flatmates makes me very upset and jealous because hes very touchy and flirty with them all the time infront of me.And if its not in front of me its on facebook walls and news feeds or something.And he knows this bothers me because we spoke about it, yet he continues to do it.Does he just want to just hurt me for "switching off" a few weeks ago? He said his feelings for me switched off a week ago.And after hearing what he thought of me in the argument I believe him.I just want to get over him, but hes making it hard to.How can I?!?!?!
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reader, tjazzy  +, writes (3 December 2009):
He's Naaaasty! I think you need to stop talking with him at all. He sounds like a very nasty and childish person. Just ignore him for a while, he'll probably go away when he gets tired of playing games with your head.
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