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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my bf for about 4 months. In the beginning I wasn't too sure about him and I took things really slow. For the first 3 months I didn't even tell him how I felt. He's slowly been expressing how he feels about me. He says that he's lucky to have someone like me, that he couldn't imagine his life without me in it, that he thinks about me a lot, that I'm a big part of his life and that I'm special. I've met his parents and he's told me that his mum really likes me.I'm a bit more reserved when it comes to telling him how I feel as I've been hurt in the past and I don't like to be vulnerable. He's told me that although he has no doubts about how I feel about him, it would be nice to hear me say something once in a while.When we're together he sometimes gets this look in his eyes and once I asked him what he's thinking about and he said 'you.'I feel like he wants to say that he loves me but he's not sure if he can because he doesn't exactly know how I will react.Am I right? Does it sound like he loves me? I'm beginning to fall for him but I don't want to set myself up for disaster again. Reply to this Question
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reader, Inu323  +, writes (24 November 2009):
I'll say this as basic as I can, If it's too hard for you then I don't know. How about initiating the "I love you"?
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