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30-35,
*ronicLemurs
writes: Whenever my fiance and I have sex, I notice that, on the rare occasion he "misses" and when I reach to put it back in, that he's a bit soft.I asked him why, and he has no clue. It's been like that and he says he does notice it. Is this normal? If not, what can I do to maintain his full erection?
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reader, IronicLemurs +, writes (26 November 2009):
IronicLemurs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell with a bit of research, I learned that after a while during intercourse, the erect penis will lose a bit of hardness, but maintain plenty to continue sex. It's nothing bad and happens to all men, so we're okay.
And trust me, he's focusing on the action....
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reader, Kenneth +, writes (24 November 2009):
He is not focusing on the action. He is probably thinking about someone or something else. Talk to him about it.
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female
reader, bitch +, writes (24 November 2009):
Yes this is normal. I think that every man has this issue at some point or another and it will happen on and off in your relationship.
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reader, LazyGuy +, writes (24 November 2009):
How long does the sex last? The body has to work hard to remain an erection and it isn't really designed to last long. What is the point after all (female orgasm is not needed as far as nature is concerned).
Has his health changed as the other poster suggested?
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reader, Mrs.McMeow +, writes (24 November 2009):
Has he gained weight recently? Sometimes it can mess up blood flow. Alot of things can cause a man the inability to maintain an erection. Stress is a big factor also along with not getting enough sleep not eating right etc and believe it or not at the ripe old age of 20 to 25 the body slows some and you actually have to watch diet and exercise.
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