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*andyCurves
writes:Theres this new girl who started my school not long ago. She had a reputation and I didnt want to be prejeduice so I was always there for her and her friend. But the more she started fitting in, the more demanding she became.Suddenly everythings happening so fast and shes one of the most popular girls in my year.She even started dating my crush ,the world seemed to involve around her. I saw her for who she was and it turns out everyone that warned me about her was right.Problem is everytime she says (for example) "I need some water". Im almost falling at her feet. I dont know what it is, its like she has this power over me. I cant say no and the worst part is , she knows that. And shes using that to her advantage. How do I break from this?! I hate watching her flirt with my crush, I hate the fact shes sleeping around and making it out as if she a virgin. I hate how she bitches about people then pretends she likes them. I could go on for ever but why am I so weak?, How do I stop being her little sidekick?? PLEASE HELP!
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reader, appleapple  +, writes (24 November 2009):
 don't be scared that you're going to loose her as a friend, because she never was one. you need to stand up for yourself, because you'll regret that you never did after high school.
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reader, QueenMarmite96 +, writes (24 November 2009):
I was in the same position not long ago. You should not be treated like this and should definitely not have to put up with this. The first step is to work on your confidence. Check out Wikihow..how to be confident and do all the steps. After that feel confident, feel like you know yourself. The last thing you want to do is fall out with the most popular girl in the school.. it doesn't matter about popularity. Try and avoid her and get involved with the ones who treat their friends right! Listen, If it is a big problem then confront her about this! Tell her you do not want to fall out but don't want to be treated like this. Boys are not everything.. friends are more important. Right now, forget about your crush and concentrate on making better friends!
I hope this really helps! Hope everything works out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): I think you need to watch the film MEAN GIRLS. All the answers await you girlfriend! xoxo
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