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writes:[Moderator note: Age posted in incorrect.]my sister asked me what happens when you have an orgasm. and i have no idea because i havent. *sarah said that her boyfriend *chris have done alot of foreplay. he asked her if she was getting ready to orgasm and she said idk. she asked me what happens when you have an orgasm. as in do you moan, do you grab, do you move your body around, what do you do? and she asked what the "proper" way to give a blow job is? because he said shes not doing it right. i have never done anything like this. for one of the fact i am lesbian so i have never given a blow job. so could any buddy give advice? thanks so much (:
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 This, orgasm is totally 'subjective'. It cannot be measure. Emotional expression vary from person to person, but 'expression' is not measurement. But, I can say some character of good and satisfactory sexual activity, which is observable and measurable also. See, in couple sex, good sexual activity make male's erection as hard as rock or wood. In female, vaginal wetness became noticeable. This can hardly achieve in 'intercourse', that is vaginal penetration through male sex organ. In vagina, male's sex organ is in the process of losing its hardness, and it is the specific reason for male and for female also to continue penetration to maintained hard erection. Hardness in erection is the only situation, considered as 'pleasurable' Which is easily achievable in foreplay.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (24 November 2009):
 You don't do anything during an orgasm. It is like sneezing or having the hiccups, your body does it all on its own and you are along for the ride.
If you mean, what does you body do, then it varies per person and per orgasm.
And it sounds like your sisters bf is a bit of an ass.
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reader, daletom +, writes (24 November 2009):
Probably the easiest way to answer the question about "what do you do at orgasm" is to give yourself one - and take notes!
The way people express themselves in orgasm varies widely from one person to another, and from one time to the next with the same person. Many people consider their orgasm a very personal thing and are reluctant to share it with their partner, especially a relatively new partner.
In general I think guys prefer a partner who isn't afraid to express herself in whatever way seems most pleasurable to her. It might involve a fair amount of non-verbal vocalization, bucking your hips, all-over trembling, and clutching your partner - or it might be just a few seconds where your body goes tense, you hold your breath, and are silent.
If your sister's partner is serious about his pleasure - and not just using her (supposedly) poor technique as an excuse to put her down, or break up - he'll help teach her what he thinks a "proper" blow job is.
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reader, deaconblue6969 +, writes (24 November 2009):
for every female its different but there are clinical occurances that happen in every woman from sensitivity becomes intense in the labia (the labia swells as well) and vaginal area, the clitorous engorges with blood, nipples harden, chill bumps can occur any where or all over her body and,the vagina moistens and some women can even ejaculate a fluid similar to a males ejaculant. its called squirting ...bottom line if neither of you arent sure what an orgasm is like youre either with the wrong person whose not aware of clitorial stimulation or where the g spot is ...or your just too young,,,as for a b.j. well ive never given one either but the names very misleading you suck not blow and most women DONT know how to give a good one....
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