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writes:My wife moved out of our home 5 years ago telling me she needed time to sort things out. I thought she was just going through a phase, but the months bumped into a year, and then one year rolled into another. She has never told me where she is living at and I can only reach her by cell phone. She has changed jobs a couple of times and I have no idea where she even works anymore. She doesn't make contact with me very often but our communication is always pleasant. But she doesn't tell me she loves me. All she will say is that she has fallen out of love for me, she feels we have nothing in common and we want different things in life. She took some of the furniture and all her personal clothing after the first year we were apart. I kept hoping she would come to her senses. Have I been blind all this time, holding onto some kind of false hope? I still don't understand what I did wrong? We went to counseling for awhile, but all it revealed was that my wife no longer wanted to be married to me; she says she cares about me, and loves me in her own way, but cannot be my wife anymore. What should I do??? How do I cope with this enormous pain?
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reader, justincarin  +, writes (24 November 2009):
The same thing happened to me. No reason, but she just had to go. I was dating before the divorce was final. Waiting around for five years? As cruel as it may sound, I wonder how often she is laughing at you, waiting around like a lost puppy. Get a life guy.
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reader, Mrs.McMeow +, writes (24 November 2009):
 Well the first thing wrong with this picture is its been five years… Yeah its over… Also not sure how well versed you are on female mind games but she may have wanted you to fight for her instead of sitting there and waiting. I noticed that your age was in the 50s how old is your wife because she seems extremely immature and that’s coming from a 20 year old. Move on. Its been to long to fix things. In my opinion she isn’t coming back.
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reader, deaconblue6969 +, writes (24 November 2009):
ummmm yeah its over...you miss any chance you may have had to win her back...seriously 5 yrs??? get a life get a girl get some counseling but move on
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