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writes:I like this guy and i went working away for a few weeks recently.Before i went, we hadn't spoken for a while, i had also removed him from my friends list on facebook, but i dont know if he ahs noticed this.this was because this other woman kept posting comments on his page with smiley faces and kisses, but i dont know if there is anything going on, as his relationship status on his page was still " single ".The day after i got back home, my uncle, who he works with, told me he had been asking him if i was back. My uncle didnt say whether he had said anything else, and he ( the guy i like ) sent me a message on msn the day before yesterday asking me if i was back and when i said i was, he asked me why, but i havent told him why yet. He didnt talk for long, as he said a friend of his was coming over so he had o go. He said hello to me yesterday too and asked how i was, but again, he didn't talk for very long.He used to flirt with me a lot on msn, putting winks and kisses on, and even went as far as to joke about wanting to be " naughty " with me, although he said he likes that i am a nice person too lol. We have seen each other in person as well, although not recently. When we have seen each other in person, he has bought me a drink, winked at me a few times, once he put his arm round me and stroked my hair, he kept standing near me when i spoke to other people, he sat next to me a few times, once he got up to walk past me and stroked my leg before he stood up and held my hand as he walked past.When i first met him, he had recently got out of a long term relationship, but they have been broken up for a couple of years now.Because he hasnt been talking/flirting with me as much lately, and hasnt met up, i'm worried that he isnt interested now, especially with that woman posting those comments too, or do you think there's a chance he does still like me, as he asked why i had come back home ?. It's really hurting me.I want to be with him so much but i dont know what he wants.We do have a big age gap ( 19 years ), but we used to have a laugh together and have some things in common.My uncle said he and his workmates might be going out together at christmas, so i'm hoping he will come, as i might be going too, but i wish we could meet alone as well.Should i tell him my thoughts ?.I dont want him to think i am a nuisance, but i need to know.I just hope he will tell me the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): He did tell his friends quite a while ago that he thought a lot of me, and that he didn't want to hurt me.This was soon after he broke up with his ex though, they have been broken up for two years now.He's even gone as far as to say to me that he wanted me to go to bed with him !. I dont know if he was joking or not, as he said this when we flirted on msn. And he did ask me to go to his house a few times, but i didn't, i only went there once.The rest of the time, i have met up with him in a group.Once he said we could go out round town together on our own and get to know each other better, but we haven't yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): i know, but what i mean is, do you think he cares in some way, as he asked if i was back, and asked why i was annoyed ? i just hope he wasnt being nosey.For some reason, i don't know if i feel comfortable enough to open up to him yet and tell him things, maybe because we haven't seen each other much alone in person yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): i might try chatting to him if he goes on the night out.To be honest, i'd much rather speak to him in person, than on the computer, but it depends if he would.I've been worried because sometimes he has been going to bed, i assume, as that's when he signed off msn, at about 3am,even when he has work the next day, whereas he used to go to bed a lot earlier, by 12ish at the latest. I can't help wondering about that.He works different shifts, but it makes me think he might be talking to someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009): ok, i just put on msn that i am p***** off and he has sent me a message asking why.I dont know if i feel ready to talk to him yet, and i dont know why he is asking, but would he bother asking if he didnt care about me ?.
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