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36-40,
*rixy22
writes:I initiated the sexual fun and for 4 months things were on then off then back on. now we are just friends no benefits. how do i get him to want me again? i have tried everything from: talking dirty to saying i want sex all the time, how horny i am, wearing sexy underwear, flirting all the time, trying to make him jealous,turning him on, catching him off guard. but none of it works. there has to be something i can do to get sex from him. someone please help me.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (24 November 2009):
 Whoa, whoa, if you want him to want you again you need to back off and give him room to miss you and fantasize about you! If he's resisted all of those advances, it seems pretty clear to me that he's just not interested. Sister, I commend you for giving it your best shot. But there's really nothing more you can do here except for chill out and back off.
Good luck!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (24 November 2009):
 You've heard of the television show, "He's Not That Into You," or something like that? Never watched it myself, but I suppose this fellow just does not want to be with you sexually, or perhaps he's not heterosexual. Advice from "Tisha-1" is excellent: retreat.
You could try three final strategies. 1. Stop communication all together. 2. If that is not possible because of the friendship, then begin talking about how you have the hots for some other guy, even if fictional (which may invoke jealousy), or 3. Actually begin a relationship with another guy.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 November 2009):
 It sounds like you've tried everything. You sound a bit desperate and my guess is that you're coming across as a bit of a sex-crazed stalker. He's turned off at this point, if he's not reacting to your come-ons. He might notice your absence and take steps to see you again, but right now, you're just making a spectacle of yourself. Retreat with dignity would be my advice.
Take care.
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