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male
age
51-59,
*risey
writes:We haven't been together long and it has been a whirlwind romance! Now in text messages and emails she says less and less she loves me or thinking of me expressing affection etc. Should I be worried?? I would like her to say such things.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (24 November 2009):
 Maybe she feels secure in the relationship and doesn't see the need to say those things anymore...maybe she just assumes you know she loves you, she's thinking of you etc
How does she behave when you're together? Don't just assess this whole thing based on what she says in texts/emails.
If you really want to know though...the best thing would be to talk to her. If you need to hear those words more often tell her so. I usually don't express my feelings that well and my bf picked up on it and told me so...I didn't see it as a problem, I appreciated him telling me.
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reader, LadyCorsair  +, writes (24 November 2009):
 Maybe things are just moving too quickly for her. Why don't you try cooling off just a little and concentrate on having fun together rather than waiting for her to say she loves you. If she's feeling a bit overwhelmed by your romance, it would make sense as to why she's acting the way she is.
Make sure you still do the things that made her fall in love with you.
Good luck sweetie,
Lady Corsair
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